This is the bit I wish someone had told me in the first year. I now write down what we did on a Friday instead of what we should do on a Monday, and it looks far more impressive.

This is us. I made a beautiful colour-coded timetable in September and we followed it for about nine days.

I still write a rough list, but I treat it as a menu rather than a schedule. Some days we pick two things off it, some days none.